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Posted by u/the_caffeine_chaser·

Anyone else feeling weird about posting progress pics with their partner?

TL;DR: Thinking about posting progress pics with my partner, but feeling weird about it. Thoughts?

So my partner and I are both on our fitness journeys, and we've been lifting together for a few months. She's hit a few solid PRs, and I'm seeing some good changes too. But now we're debating whether to post progress pics together or separately. I get that sharing the journey can be motivating, but I can't help but feel a bit awkward about it. Like, what if my gains overshadow hers or vice versa? Do you guys post together or stick to solo shots? What's the vibe on that?

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u/zucchini_zapper·

Honestly, I wouldn't recommend sharing progress pics if you're worried. It's so easy for people to misinterpret things. Stick to your own journey for now, and maybe do a joint one later when you're both feeling confident.

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u/powerlifting_panda·

I agree with those who say a joint post can work! My lifting buddy and I did this recently, and it was refreshing. But I get the concern about overshadowing, maybe share a post showing your combined efforts, like your lifting stats or how you motivate each other. It's all about the journey.

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u/nonbinary_nutritionist·

I totally get the awkwardness! It's important to celebrate each other's achievements, but I think it should be about how both of you feel comfortable. Maybe start with separate posts, and if you're both feeling good about it, do a joint one later. Just remember that progress is individual, and it's okay to shine in your own way.

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u/kettlebell_queen·

i'd say go for it! Sharing your journey can inspire others, even if it feels a bit awkward. You could even ask followers to share their journeys too! Just keep it about the community.

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u/grandma_gains·

I remember when my husband and I started lifting together, we were both nervous about sharing our progress. We decided to share our journeys separately at first, but after a while, we did a couple of joint posts. It was empowering to support each other. Just make sure to celebrate each other's wins, no matter the size.

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u/sweaty_sis·

Facts! Like, who cares whose gains are bigger? Just celebrate the journey together. I mean, I do solo posts but sometimes throw in a goofy pic with my gym buddy. It's all about having fun!

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u/tired_and_toned·

You know, I went through the same thing with my partner. We decided to keep our posts separate at first, and it really helped us appreciate each other's journeys. Sharing together can come later, especially if you're both on the same path

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u/beach_body_2024·

Honestly, I switched to Nutrola for tracking my meals, and it just fits my lifestyle better. The voice logging feature is amazing for me since I hate typing while juggling meal prep. It makes my life so much easier.

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u/iifymyself·

If you're both hitting PRs, that's dope! I think posting together could really inspire others too. Why not show off the hard work you've both put in? Just be honest about your journeys; it helps people relate.

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u/mealprep_mike99·

I think it's great to share both perspectives! Consider doing a combined post where you both talk about what the journey has meant for you personally. That way, neither of you feels overshadowed, and it highlights the support aspect of your relationship

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u/runningfrommyproblems·

i see where you're coming from, and it's totally valid to feel a bit uneasy. But progress pictures can be so much more than just a numbers game. They can represent the hard work, dedication, and love that goes into your fitness journeys together. If you both want to post, make it clear that you're there to uplift each other. That way, it doesn't turn into a comparison.

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u/cardio_catastrophe·

Just do your thing! If you're feeling weird about it, why not go for the solo shots for now? You can always mix it up later! Just keep enjoying lifting.

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u/crunching_cardiac·

Yep, it's all about how you feel. Just don't stress it! If it becomes a competition, that sucks the fun out of it. Maybe just post the gains you've made without comparing.

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u/no_squats_no_service·

Just keep it light! If you're worried about overshadowing, why not just celebrate your partner's wins in the post? It shows support and makes it less competitive.

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u/chickenandbroccoli98·

I get that! If you're worried about overshadowing each other, maybe do a joint post where you both share what you've learned. That way, it's less about the gains and more about growth.

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u/glutenfree_gains·

I hear you! I felt the same way when starting my fitness journey with my partner. We kept our posts separate to avoid comparison. Later, we shared some joint pics, which really showed our support for each other. Just focus on lifting each other up.

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u/bro_split_babe·

Ngl, I think joint posts are the move! Just embrace the cringe, lol. Plus, you both look fab, so why not show it off? Just be real about your progress and hype each other up.

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u/nonbinary_nutritionist·

Ngl, I just find it silly how some people get so competitive about gains. We're all on different paths, and that's the beauty of it! Just support each other.

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