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Posted by u/runningfromcardio··Beginner

So I got a death stare on day 1 and now I'm hiding, how do I get over this?

TL;DR: Got a weird look on day 1 at the gym, now I'm scared to go back.

I went to the gym for the first time and some dude shot me a look like I was about to bench press a toaster. Now I'm convinced I'm not cut out for this gym life and haven't gone back since. Any tips on how to shake off that weird vibe and just get lifting? Asking for a friend (that's me).

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You might want to consider supplements that can help with your confidence. Something like creatine can enhance performance over time. Feeling stronger in the gym might just help shake off that weird vibe!

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The gym is a sacred space for self-improvement, not a judgment zone. As the great Rippetoe once said, 'Strength is never a weakness.' Embrace the discomfort, learn from it, and let it fuel your fire. We all face stares, but the only gaze that matters is your own, focused on growth.

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u/rep_recovery·

It's really common to feel that way! A lot of lifters have been through that experience. Recovery is just as important as lifting. Take your time, and maybe start with some light sessions just to ease back into it. You got this!

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u/strongergains·

Don't let one person's stare define your gym experience. Everyone starts somewhere, and I remember feeling out of place too when I began. Just keep showing up, focus on your own progress, and soon enough, you'll build confidence.

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u/justanothervegan·

I totally get that vibe! I remember my first day, and some dude kept looking at me while I was trying to figure out the machines. I just focused on my workout and tried to block it out. You'll find your groove!

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u/saltyngl·

lol maybe that dude was just jealous of your potential! Seriously though, everyone has their own insecurities. Focus on your journey and remember, those who judge usually have no idea how hard it is to start.

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Bodyweight training can also be a great way to get started without the pressure of heavy weights. Start with some push-ups, pull-ups, or squats at home. Progressing at your own pace can really build confidence before hitting the gym.

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u/briankoel·

As a gym owner, I've seen countless newbies feel intimidated. Most people are there to work on themselves, not to judge. I encourage you to talk to trainers or find a lifting buddy. It can make the environment feel way more welcoming

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u/macrocounter98·

Track your progress, whether it's weight lifted or workout duration. Seeing improvements over time can help build your confidence. Use an app if it helps, or keep a journal. It makes a big difference to see your journey visually.

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