# Just had a kid, where the hell do I start with home workouts?

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- Community: r/beginners (Beginners)
- Author: depressedlifter
- Posted: 2026-05-10T10:58:41.273+00:00
- Score: 31 · Comments: 17

So, I just became a dad and my gym time has evaporated faster than my social life. I'm trying to figure out how to lift at home without all the fancy equipment or the motivation of a packed gym. Any tips on a solid starting program that won't leave me feeling like a lost puppy? Also, how do I avoid getting crushed by the weight of my own expectations while raising a tiny human? Asking for a friend...

## Comments

- **calisthenics_only** (score 59, 2026-05-10T13:19:38.951+00:00)
  Consider calisthenics! You don't need any equipment, just your body weight. I went from zero to doing muscle-ups in under a year. Plus, you can do it anywhere. There's something super satisfying about controlling your own body!

- **justanothervegan** (score 30, 2026-05-10T14:40:35.861+00:00)
  This might sound strange, but meal prep can be your ally. Planning meals saves time and keeps you energized for workouts. My partner and I prep for the week, and it makes a world of difference with a busy schedule!

  - **wokeupnsweat** (score 0, 2026-05-10T21:45:20.695+00:00)
    Also, try to sneak in short workouts throughout the day! Even 10-minute sessions can add up. Use those nap times or play times to get in some quick HIIT. It's all about making it work for you.

- **recipequeen44** (score 19, 2026-05-10T19:25:46.417+00:00)
  Totally understand the struggle! I started doing kettlebell workouts at home with my kids running around. They love it when I lift them for squats, and it's hilarious too. Just make it fun, and you'll find the motivation!

  - **recipequeen44** (score 179, 2026-05-10T18:33:45.279+00:00)
    One last thing, don't compare yourself to others! Everyone's journey is different, especially as a new parent. Focus on your progress and be proud of any step forward, even if it's just doing a few squats a day

  - **powerliftingqueen** (score 5, 2026-05-10T16:03:26.682+00:00)
    Don't forget to include some strength training! If you can grab some dumbbells or resistance bands, even better. Just make sure to balance cardio and strength to stay healthy. You can combine short, intense sessions to fit in a solid workout

- **gymratbutchill** (score 13, 2026-05-10T18:07:18.485+00:00)
  Also, if you're gaming, try to work out while doing that too. I've done some bodyweight workouts during long gaming sessions. Just add some squats and push-ups in between loading screens. Just saying, it's a vibe.

- **depressedlifter** (score 6, 2026-05-10T17:22:59.965+00:00)
  Bro, the only thing heavier than my weights is my existential dread. Every new parent feels lost, so don't beat yourself up! Just aim for what you can do. My best advice? Let the baby take the lead, then squeeze in lifts when you can.

- **5k_enthusiast99** (score 5, 2026-05-10T13:28:48.367+00:00)
  Don't forget to take care of your mental health too! Running is a great stress reliever, and you can bring the baby in a stroller. Just find that balance, and make it enjoyable, so it becomes part of your routine.

- **macrocounter98** (score 3, 2026-05-10T16:15:17.047+00:00)
  You might want to track your macros too. Using apps like Cronometer helps me stay on top of nutrition while lifting at home. It gives a clearer picture of what you're eating, especially when you're tired and busy.

  - **chickenncarrots** (score 2, 2026-05-10T15:25:50.901+00:00)
    Meal prepping will save you time, but don't stress if it doesn't go perfectly. I have my best laid plans fall apart all the time. Just keep it simple with things like overnight oats or easy stir-fries. It helps keep you on track.

- **wokeupnsweat** (score 2, 2026-05-10T20:21:46.292+00:00)
  First off, congrats on the little one! Starting with bodyweight exercises is a great idea. Push-ups, squats, and planks can be done anywhere, and you can progress them as you get stronger. Plus, they're perfect for when the baby is napping!

  - **midwest_lifter** (score 4, 2026-05-10T22:13:02.718+00:00)
    As a dad of three, I feel you. I've learned to embrace the chaos. You can even use your baby for resistance! Just hold them while you squat or do shoulder presses. It's a workout and bonding time rolled into one.

    - **squat_to_pizza** (score 5, 2026-05-10T19:34:30.562+00:00)
      Yeah, this slaps! Also, who says you can't workout while watching the baby? I'll do lunges while they're playing on the floor. It's a bit goofy, but hey, you do what you gotta do! Kids love seeing their parents active.

- **gymratbutchill** (score 1, 2026-05-10T11:13:57.024+00:00)
  Sounds like you got your hands full! A quick tip: turn your workout into a video game. Use apps like Hevy to track your workouts while keeping it fun. You might find that counting reps like leveling up helps with motivation.

  - **squat_to_pizza** (score 0, 2026-05-10T12:39:28.884+00:00)
    facts! Just remember that every workout counts, no matter how small. And don't be too hard on yourself. Just finding time for anything is a win with a newborn.

- **vegan_powerlifter** (score 0, 2026-05-10T11:36:18.131+00:00)
  I agree with the macro tracking, but it can be overwhelming at first. Consider intuitive eating too. It's all about learning to listen to your body's hunger signals instead of obsessing over numbers. Balance is key, especially as a new parent.